“I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we … Continue reading Believing in Choices
Love, Belonging & the Marriage Circus
“A generous heart is always open, always ready to receive our going and coming. In the midst of such love we need never fear abandonment. This is the most precious gift true love offers - the experience of knowing we always belong.” (Bell Hooks, All About Love: New Visions) The idea of marriage, and especially … Continue reading Love, Belonging & the Marriage Circus
Where Have You Been?
“She might be without country, without nation, but inside her there was still a being that could exist and be free, that could simply say I am without adding a this, or a that, without saying I am Indian, Guyanese, English, or anything else in the world.” (Sharon Maas , 2000) Where have you been? Seems like … Continue reading Where Have You Been?
The Lost Ones
When was the last time you cried? That question seems to caught up in so much baggage. As though you must of been either; weak, scared or self-pitying. Perhaps you were happy, excited or surprised, you just needed to be overcome with some emotion. I'm championing crying at the moment. So many of my tears have … Continue reading The Lost Ones